Weddings are celebrations filled with joy, love and lots of planning. Mothers of the bride and groom are often the emotional anchors, the silent supporters and the unsung heroines who work tirelessly behind the scenes. One of the significant yet frequently overlooked challenges is finding the perfect gown for mom. I am here to help you navigate the search with grace and style.

You aren’t just picking out a dress; you're gearing up for a monumental family event. The dress becomes more than just fabric and thread; it is a testament to love, and the cherished role a mother plays in her child's life. When the big day arrives, seeing your child walk down the aisle makes every moment of this journey worthwhile.                       

When stressing about the right color to wear a great rule of thumb is if the wedding colors are bright or bold, then choosing softer muted variations. For instance, if the wedding colors are burgundy some complimentary colors would be sage, blush, lavender, rusty orange, dark teal and even mustard. If the wedding colors are soft like sage and blush think about colors like navy, slate blue, brown, plum or forest green. This should make scoring a shade that complements you while adhering to the wedding palette easier!

                                                Mother of the Groom                 Bridesmaids                      Mother of the Bride

As moms we often wrestle with sky-high expectations and pressure we put on ourselves to show up as the best possible version of ourselves. Not to mention the pressure we feel from family, friends and social media to look perfect. Finding a gown that hugs the right curves and minimizes the parts that we don't love can feel like a scavenger hunt. Unlike brides, who get dresses tailored to their whims, as moms' we often don't allow ourselves to have that same VIP treatment. Many of us struggle with body confidence, especially as the years roll on, and our bodies change cranking up those insecurities.

Good news, times have changed and there are so many options to fit every body type without looking matronly and aged. The first thing to do before you start searching for the dress is to understand your body type and the silhouettes that are best suited for you. You want to focus on quality and fit!!! It is important to invest in alterations and to choose quality fabrics that will make you feel great.

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Fashion can be like a fickle friend, always changing with new styles and colors trending, but most weddings call for that classic touch. The style dilemma is to rock the latest trends or embrace timeless sophistication. This can be a tough call, especially when we want to look chic without stepping out of line. Finding that sweet spot between fashionable and timeless is a common fashion conundrum. This is where the overall theme of the wedding comes into play and can influence whether a modern or classic look is best. For example, a trendy gown may fit beautifully with a contemporary wedding in a museum or art gallery, while a timeless dress might suit more traditional settings like a country club, banquet hall or hotel.

Remember:

1. Start Early: Give yourself plenty of time to explore styles and colors. I recommend starting your search at least 6 months prior to the wedding. This will allow time for alterations if needed. 
2. Consult the Bride and Groom: Communication is key. This helps align your choices with their wedding vision. 
3. Get a Style Sidekick: Don’t shy away from a stylist! We’ve got the scoop on what styles and colors will make you shine.
4. Focus on Fit and Comfort: Make sure the dress fits like a glove and your shoes are comfy too. You’ll be rocking it and them for hours!
5. Stay True to Yourself: While it’s great to consider opinions, sometimes we ask to many people what they think and move away from what we really like, REMEMBER to pick a dress that makes YOU feel like a million bucks.

The journey to find that perfect gown for your child’s wedding can be a whirlwind of emotions and practical challenges. But with some planning, a dash of expert advice and a commitment to your unique style, finding a dress that’s not just stunning but genuinly leaves also celebrates the love and family spirit of the day. After all, weddings are all about love and moms deserve to sparkle in their own amazing way!

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