It’s a common scenario: you open your closet full of clothes and still feel like you have nothing to wear. Many women find themselves rotating through the same 20% of their wardrobe while the rest sits untouched. Why does this happen, and more importantly, how can we turn that around? Let’s dive into why this occurs and explore practical solutions for building a wardrobe that you love and wear in its entirety.

1. Overwhelming Choices:  Having too many options can lead to decision fatigue. When faced with a closet packed with clothes, it can feel easier to reach for tried-and-true favorites rather than sift through a mountain of items. This can result in defaulting to that comfortable 20% time and time again.

Solution: Curate your closet. Regularly declutter your wardrobe, removing items that no longer fit, flatter, or excite you. Keep only what makes you feel confident and happy. This will make getting dressed easier and more efficient, as you won’t have to wade through unworn pieces.

2. Emotional Attachments:   Many women hold onto clothes for sentimental reasons or because of how much they spent on them, even if they’re no longer practical or enjoyable to wear. These emotional attachments lead to overcrowded closets filled with items that no longer serve a purpose in day-to-day life.

Solution: Be honest with yourself. If you haven’t worn an item in the last year, ask yourself why. If it’s not something you can realistically see yourself wearing again, it may be time to let it go. Donate or sell items you don’t need—this will free up space and help someone else enjoy them.

3. Wardrobe Mismatches:  We often buy items because we love them in the moment but then struggle to incorporate them into our day-to-day style. Maybe that statement dress felt like a must-have for a special event but now sits unworn because it doesn’t fit into your regular lifestyle.

Solution: Shop with intention. Build a wardrobe around your actual lifestyle, not an idealized one. Consider your daily activities and opt for pieces that can be mixed and matched easily. Think versatility—can this dress be worn both to work and out to dinner? Can that jacket pair well with jeans and a dress?

4. Lack of Wardrobe Planning: Sometimes we collect clothes without a clear sense of what we already own, which leads to buying more of what we don’t need and neglecting key pieces that would make our wardrobe more functional. Without proper planning, it’s easy to end up with clothes that don’t work together or serve specific functions.

Solution: Create a capsule wardrobe. Focus on building a cohesive wardrobe with fewer, high-quality pieces that work in multiple ways. Start with a neutral base and add pops of color or patterns that suit your style. This way, getting dressed becomes a fun, creative process rather than a stressful one.

5. Fit:  Clothes that don’t fit or flatter can quickly become forgotten, taking up space in your wardrobe but never making it into rotation. Whether it’s a top that’s too tight or a dress that doesn’t fit your body shape, ill-fitting clothes are often avoided in favor of pieces that make us feel good.

Solution: Prioritize fit. Regularly assess how your clothes fit and make alterations if necessary. Don’t keep items in hopes of fitting into them one day—focus on what fits now and makes you feel amazing. If something can be tailored to perfection, invest in alterations to give it new life.

6. Lack of Style Confidence:  Sometimes the reason we stick to a small percentage of our wardrobe is because we don’t feel confident experimenting with different styles or pieces. It’s easier to fall back on safe outfits that have already proven to be “successful.”

Solution: Play with styling. Challenge yourself to step outside your comfort zone by creating new outfit combinations. Invest in a few key accessories or outer layers that can completely change the look of an outfit. If you’re unsure, consult a personal stylist to help guide you toward pieces that work with your body and style preferences.

At the heart of the issue is the misconception that more clothes equals more options. In reality, a streamlined wardrobe of pieces you love and feel good in offers the most versatility and joy. By decluttering, shopping with intention, and focusing on fit, you’ll create a wardrobe that reflects your true style—one that you’ll use fully, feel confident in, and actually enjoy wearing every day.

Would you like a wardrobe that makes you feel this way? Reach out for a consultation today and start making the most of your closet!

So, you’ve finally done it. You’ve cleaned out your closet, purging the pieces that no longer serve you. It feels liberating, doesn’t it? But now, you might be wondering, “What’s next?” How do you prevent yourself from slipping back into old habits of overshopping and ending up with a closet full of items you don’t truly love or need?

Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you stay on track and ensure your wardrobe remains a reflection of your style, lifestyle, and goals.

 1. Reflect on What’s Left: Before you rush to fill any perceived gaps, take a moment to assess what you’ve kept. What do these items say about your style? Do you notice any patterns in color, style, or type of clothing? Understanding what you gravitate towards can help you refine your style and make more intentional choices moving forward.

2. Define Your Personal Style: If you haven’t already, now is the perfect time to clearly define your personal style. Are you drawn to classic, timeless pieces? Or do you prefer trendy, fashion-forward looks? Identifying your style will help you stay focused and avoid impulse buys that don’t align with your overall aesthetic. Not sure how to define your style? Here is a list of ways to help determine your personal style. 

3. Create a Wardrobe Plan:  Think of your wardrobe as a curated collection rather than a random assortment of clothes. Start by identifying key pieces you need to complete your outfits. Consider the following:

   - Basics: Do you have enough foundational pieces like well-fitting jeans, plain tees, and versatile jackets?

   - Statement Pieces: Are there items that showcase your personality and make your wardrobe feel uniquely yours?

   - Seasonal Items: Is your wardrobe balanced for all seasons, or are you missing essential pieces for certain weather conditions?

   - Make a list of what you need, and stick to it when shopping.

 4. Set a Budget and Shop Strategically:  Overshopping often stems from impulse buying and a lack of planning. To avoid this, set a budget for your wardrobe. Prioritize quality over quantity, and focus on investing in pieces that will stand the test of time. When you do shop, refer to your wardrobe plan to ensure you’re only purchasing items that fill a gap or elevate your existing collection.

5. Practice the One-In, One-Out Rule:  To maintain the balance you’ve worked hard to create, adopt the one-in, one-out rule. For every new item you bring into your wardrobe, let go of an old one. This will help you avoid overcrowding and ensure that your wardrobe remains curated and intentional.

6. Regularly Revisit and Revise:  Your lifestyle and preferences will evolve, and your wardrobe should too. Schedule regular closet check-ins—whether that’s seasonally or annually—to reassess your clothing and make adjustments as needed. This will help you stay aligned with your style goals and prevent unnecessary clutter.

7. Seek Inspiration, Not Validation:   It’s easy to get caught up in trends and feel the pressure to keep up with the latest fashions. Instead, focus on seeking inspiration from fashion icons, style blogs, or even Pinterest boards that resonate with your personal style. Use these as guides to enhance your wardrobe rather than validation for impulse purchases.

8. Consider Working with a Stylist:  If you find yourself struggling to maintain a cohesive wardrobe or simply want professional guidance, consider working with a personal stylist. They can help you refine your style, create a wardrobe plan, and ensure that every piece you own serves a purpose.

Cleaning out your closet is just the first step in creating a wardrobe you love. By following these tips, you can build a collection of clothing that truly reflects who you are and supports your lifestyle—without falling back into the cycle of overshopping.

The Five Essential Handbags Every Woman Should Have

When it comes to accessorizing few items are as essential as the right handbag. A well-curated collection of bags can elevate your style, meet your practical needs, and add a touch of personality to any outfit. Here are the five essential bags I think every woman should have and why they deserve a place in your closet.

1. The Classic Tote Bag and Why You Need It:

A classic tote bag is the workhorse of your collection. It's spacious, sturdy, and perfect for daily use. Whether you’re heading to the office, running errands, or traveling, a tote can carry everything you need—from your laptop and notebooks to groceries and gym clothes. I always recommend finding one with feet. This bag usually takes a beating and often ends up on the floor of a restaurant or plane.

Tips:

- If you are looking for versatility opt for neutral colors like black, beige, gray, burgandy or navy.

- Choose high-quality materials like leather or durable canvas to ensure it withstands daily wear and tear.

- Pair it with casual or business-casual outfits for a polished yet practical look.

M. Gemi Elena Grande Tote                                                                              Madewell Zip-Top Essential Tote

                                                                          Lulu Lemon Tote

 2. The  Clutch and Why You Need It:    The options seem to be endless from styles to sizes and the amount each one can hold. An elegant clutch is a must-have for evenings out, formal events, and special occasions. Make sure you find one that is the perfect size for your essentials—phone, keys, lipstick. I typically lean toward metallics because I love the drama, but you will get the most bang for your buck if you go for a neutral hew.

Tips:

- Select a clutch with metallic accents or embellishments to complement your evening wear.

- Use it to elevate a simple dress or to add a sophisticated touch to more elaborate evening attire.

- The likelihood is you won't carry this on the regular so make sure that it isn't limited to one season. 

Grey Satin Metallic Clutch                                                                            Copper Metallic Clutch

3. The Chic Crossbody & Why You Need It:  A chic crossbody bag is the epitome of hands-free convenience. It's perfect for busy days when you need your essentials close at hand but don’t want to be weighed down. Ideal for shopping trips, travel, or casual outings, the crossbody bag offers style and practicality.

 Tips:

- Look for adjustable straps to customize the length for your comfort.

- Remember for it to look good the chain or strap should always lie flat. 

- For comfort and accessibility you want the bag itself to sit right above your hipbone.

Frye Leather Crossbody                                                                  Cohoa Soft Pebble Leather Crossbody

4: HOBO Bag & Why you need it:  It can complement a variety of outfits, from casual to slightly dressy, making it a versatile choice for many occasions. Hobo bags are known for their roomy interiors, which can accommodate everyday essentials and more, making them practical for women who need to carry multiple items.

Tips:

- Decide on the size before the style. You are more apt to use a bag that fits under your arm comfortably without being too bulky.

- Pair it with casual outfits or even smart-casual attire for a modern, effortless vibe.

                  Stonewashed Soft Leather Hobo                                                                   Soft Slouchy Hobo Bag

5. The Statement Bag;   Why You Need It:  Every woman needs a statement bag that reflects her personal style and adds flair to any outfit. This bag is all about making a fashion statement and showing off your personality. It can be bold in color, unique in shape, or adorned with eye-catching details.

 Styling Tips:

 - Don’t be afraid to go bold with colors, prints, or textures.

- Use it to add a fun element to simple, monochromatic outfits.

- Rotate this bag for special occasions when you want to stand out and make an impression.

Fiona Bead Bag                                                                                                  Lorna Murray Midi Tropez Tote

Building a versatile handbag collection doesn’t mean you need a closet full of bags—just a few well-chosen pieces can cover all your needs. The classic tote, elegant clutch, chic crossbody, hobo bag, and statement bag will each play a unique role in your wardrobe, ensuring you’re prepared for any occasion with style and confidence. Happy accessorizing!  

 Ladies trust me you can be comfortable and be pulled together and stylish at the same time, you don't have to give one up for the other.

Here are my basic  tips to help you achieve that perfect balance:

1. Quality Fabrics: When you invest in high-quality fabrics that feel good against your skin it makes a difference. I recommend looking for materials like cotton, linen, bamboo or soft knits which offer breathability and comfort. When you wear quality fabrics often they have a superior drape and finish. Why is this important? The drape and finish of your clothing significantly impacts how the clothes look and feel on you. A good drape allows the fabric to move with you ensuring comfort. It also ensures that the garment falls correctly on your body highlighting or downplaying the areas you love and the areas of your body that aren't your favorite. Inevitably good draping from quality fabrics makes feel better and can impact your mood and confidence.

                                                                              Mango Belen Halter Neck Linen Dress

2. Layering: Layering adds dimension to your outfit and allows you to adjust your comfort level throughout the day. I love layering with a cozy cardigan over the shoulders. You can pair it with a basic tee or cute print top and even a simple dress. Light layers can always be removed based on temperature changes. In the cooler months opt for a blazer or denim jacket. Layering offers you a way to express your personal style through combining colors, patterns and fabrics creatively.

3. Stylish Footwear: Comfort doesn’t mean compromising on style when it comes to footwear. Many designers have embraced the need for comfort without compromising on the aesthetic. Many shoes now have memory foam, cushioned insoles and provide arch support and comfort. I love Aersoles and Naturalizer for cute comfortable shoes. Pay attention to your feet!!  Shoes should feel good from the moment you put them on. They may fit in the store, but before wearing them out do another try on at the end of the day when your feet are a bit swollen to ensure they will fit.

                                                                                  Aerosoles Cosmos Platform Heel

4. Accessorize Thoughtfully: Not sure where to start with accessories? I recommend you start by creating a jewelry uniform. Pick a long and short minimalist necklace, a pair of studs and a pair hoops along with a stack of three bracelets that you can throw with pretty much anything. By keeping the accessories minimal you won't feel weighed down or uncomfortable. Having a simple set of "go-to" pieces of jewelry will make accessorizing easier and with time make you feel more comfortable switching it up.

5.  Fit Matters: First and foremost, properly fitting clothes are just more comfortable. Think about a pair of jeans that are too tight or a shirt that pulls at the shoulders. These are both uncomfortable and can distract you throughout the day and affect your mood and confidence.  Comfort comes from being able to move freely, so avoid anything that feels restrictive. This also means letting go of the clothes that no longer fit you. We all have those favorite jeans that don't quite fit the way they used to and they are so hard to part with, but do it. Having a closet cluttered with clothes that don't fit makes getting ready so much harder and can cause stress and anxiety.  Keeping clothes that don't fit take up physical in mental space. Love who you are at whatever size are, your weight doesn't limit you from looking your best, you do.   

I know many women like to hide in baggy clothing when they are not happy with their weight. They find comfort in baggy dresses or oversized shirts with leggings but the lack of definition can make your body look obscure and often makes you look larger. Regardless of your size wearing clothes that fit you and highlight the things you like about yourself will make you more comfortable in your skin and people will notice. 

Hey gorgeous! Ever nabbed that dress that's just a teeny bit too snug, thinking "Oh, I'll squeeze into it someday!"? But all it does is gather dust in your closet; or, you  wear it and you feel like a can of biscuits.  If this sounds like you, rest assured, you are not alone. We have all done it. Or, on the flip side, maybe you gained a few pounds and are drowning yourself in oversized clothes as if you’re playing hide and seek with your self-esteem.

Here's the secret to feeling good in your clothes: Wear clothes that fit you well. It really is that easy. When they fit you properly - you feel better wearing them. When your clothes fit, it’s less likely for them to ride up or ride down, or reveal something that you didn’t intend. This situation is even worse in professional situations or social settings where it’s important to look your best.  I hate to say it, but wearing clothes that are ill fitting can lead to numerous problems including chafing, cutting off circulation, and excessive sweating. 

A form of self-care is letting go of the clothes that no longer fit or you weren’t able to “get into”. And if you’re hiding in oversized clothing because you don’t want to want to buy clothes at “your size” you need to remember when you wear clothes that fit you properly you feel better and often look slimmer. 

Having clothes that fit you well is about understanding how to dress for your body type. Ladies, you're all unique and fabulous, so let's embrace it! Not sure how to find your body type? Not a problem, the link below is a body calculator where you put in your measurements and then it lets you know which body type category you fit into.

Body Calculator: www.calculator.net/body-type-calculator.html

After determining your body type, take the time to figure out what the best silhouettes and cuts work best for you. There is so much information on the internet that you can simply start your research on Google. I would start simple by researching the best tops or necklines and then move into other clothing styles.

 Before you buy anything, be sure to take the time to go through your closet and discover which pieces fit you well and make you feel fabulous and which pieces make you feel less than fantastic. I encourage you to remove the pieces that aren’t making you feel good because they are too tight or too big. You deserve to be in clothes that fit and make you feel amazing every single day.

Take an inventory of what you have and what you might need to complete outfits and allow you to mix and match your pieces. Now, the next time you go shopping you will know exactly what you need to purchase; and, what needs to remain at the store. Take time to buy pieces that fit your personal style and fit you properly.  Both will make getting ready easier. Trust me, understanding your body type can turn shopping from a chore into a joyride!